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Okay. This is weird. Can someone tell me that I am not alone?

Here's my situation. I think I am not just an Adam fan. Today I realized that I have deeply fallen in love with him. I don't know why. I think this is love. Like, I have actually have feelings for Adam as a person, not as a singer. I love him. I want to be his girlfriend.

I know he's gay but this feeling isn't stopping. What should I do?

Is this normal? I mean, is it normal for a fan to fall deeply IN LOVE with a singer?

I have had celebrity crushes but this is different. I am actually in love with Adam like I was in love with my first love in High School.

*Mandy*

hi there...

glad to hear that i am also not alone!! i think i hv fallen deeply in love with Adam!!! i think of him all day, all the time and worry for him... esp now that he's busy touring and promoting his new album... i'm so obsessed with Adam that i once said i want to marry him (b4 my 2 children!!!) - ooops.. slip of the tongue!!!.. and they thought i was joking!!!

but seriously i can't help my feelings too! Adam is special... i fall in love with him more and more EVERYDAY!!!

i know this sounds kinda crazy... esp coming from a married woman in her 40s...

I LOVE U ADAM!!!

Count me in. I'm love with Adam here, too. He's the love of my life. He gives me so much joy just watching him entertain. He's a special person
for sure. It's surprising to me, too, because I've never had a celebrity crush.

Me too. I know ,this is SOO CRAZY!! I can't STOP thinking of him day and night. This is a phnomenon. Yes, he is gorgeose, talented, beautiful, sexy, has an amazind inner beauty and more and more. But NEVER in my life,I am 45, had a EVER felt this way. I just can't get him out of my head!!!
Do you think he knows the affect he has on us? I think we should give it a name, something like "The Adam Lambert affect" simple, I know. But to the point.
I an officially under his SPELL, his VOODOO.
I am under the Adam Lambert affect.
Isn't it ironic that one of the song is VOODOO?
We are under HIS voodoo.
Poor Adam, just wanted to sing and have a record deal and look what happened. do you think he expected THIS?

Whoa..if any of you are letting this fan-thing go too far, you really should step-back. Adam is an amazing performer,cute guy,etc. BUT... one except those people who actually have a relationship with him can really know him. You are only seeing one side of him, which is not who he is in real life. Adam, like most people has more sides to him because he is a complex human being like everyone being is.

You are only seeing the positive-things about him personified through media. That is what you have feelings for--someone who seems perfect but you are not being objective about this. You are projecting all of your feelings onto the person who you think he really is which is not fair to you or him.

These feelings are about "you" not him. Adam's life is fulfilling something that is missing in your lives. If you think you spend too much time on Adam and it does sounds like it--take a break and force yourself to stop reading about him.

Being a fan is suppose to be "fun" and light but if you become too attached to Adam or obsessed-it's really not healthy nor will it be fun for you or those around you.

And if you have children--I suggest you get involved with their lives instead of Adam's. Being a mom can be overwhelming but escaping it by using Adam is not good for them or you. Obviously, Adam's mom paid a lot of attention to him when he was growing up and that is why he is such a likable guy. Do the same for your children and they will be amazing adults as well. It's never too early to get them involved with theater or music. Plug that energy into them and in years to come, you will reap the rewards of having great kids who will do great things.

Ok—LOL! I think Adam represents the perfect ideal so it’s easy to become really, er, *focused* on him. He’s awesome and in a perfect world he’s be my gay best friend-although don’t tell my real gay best friend I said that! I have sexy, gay male friends who I love to hang out with to go shopping, the movies, plan parties with but I realize the *best* thing for them is to find the boy of their dreams so I make that part of our friendship as well—I love playing matchmaker from time to time. Many women enjoy non-threatening male attention—but I as a straight girl I realize that finding the man of dreams and keeping my goals on track means I probably can’t go out clubbing at gay bars every weekend!

I love Adam. I feel a deep affection for him. It's about admiration, protection, celebration, even exploration. I don't fully understand it, but I cherish Adam. It takes a new level of discipline for me to prioritize my real world, but I can. We must try to keep our love a positive thing. The only way you can project positive energy is to vary your activities and welcome new interests. I know that's hard to do when absolutely everything reminds you of Adam. I'm only saying that obsessing over Adam will create negativity. Adam needs our light. Be strong, complete and fill up those around you with the love Adam has created in you. Being Adam's fan is actually a just a different kind of intimacy. Adam loves his fans. He wouldn't want us to self-destruct. Adam needs us in order to make his dreams come true. Be worthy of his trust.

Wow! For the last 10 years or so ALL of my fannish activities have represented a much needed escape from the day-to-day. I'm a little fixated on Adam and adore fanfiction written based on his public persona but understand that he has flaws like the rest of us but still find him inspirational. I'm a married w/o kids professional with 2 advanced degrees.

Hi Mandy!
What you feel is perfectly normal, a long as you don't get obsessed. Just experience it a way that gives your more joy than misery. Just don't act on it, and don't tell him about it, it would creep him out!

Well, you probably can't be 'in love' with somebody you don't really know. But I know what you mean. I love him too, for both his music and for what I know of him as a person. But that's as far as it goes!!!

After seeing Adam the first time on American Idol, I became obsessed. I love music, and had been to concerts featuring some of the top Artist around--Def Leppard, Guns N Roses, WhiteSnake. I didn't go crazy over any of them. I felt I was missing something. One look at Adam is all it took. Every night since Adam sang "Play That Funky Music", I have been on this computer to see Adam, and listen to his music every day. I'm soo glad that there are other's who feel the same way.

Being much older than the posters here I also have a deep affection for ADAM but not in a 'I want to be with him all the time' sort of way. My love is more maternal or grandmotherly inasmuch as I want all the best there is for him. Happiness, fulfillment, success, fun, and MOST of all WORLD ACCEPTANCE ... I want everyone to see him as I do even though I know that isn't logical or feasible in the U.S. Just watching his day-to-day growth as an EXCEPTIONAL ENTERTAINER is enough for me .. that's all I ask!

all ya'lls stories are beautiful and romantic and stuff...

but all i really wanna do is FUCK him-HAHA!!! hes so damn yummy! but then after all that i really wanna fall in love with him...

but im only 15 and hes already 28....OH WELL!! bring on the looovin!!!

hes just so god damn gorgeous!

Adam is a truly interesting man. It's his personality as much as anything that appeals to folks. Lots and lots of men have gorgeous looks and talent. But there's something about Adam's sincereity and honesty and (yes) vulnerability that make him special. He makes us feel protective of him. We support him no matter what, and maybe that is a type of love. It's how my dog loves me :-))) Hey, it's OK to fanticize. In fact, it's a good thing. Just don't get too absorbed where it interferes with your life. Sorry for spelling errors.

i just looked up the word "love" on merriam webster and i officially love adam lambert!

Miranda! Take a cold shower young lady!

Mandy, don't ever stop!! Adam brings so much joy and happiness and fun to life, why would you ever shut that out just because the intensity is mysterious. Fantasy was such an important part of childhood - it got us through and formed our inner strength and spirit, why shouldn't it be a strengthening part of being a grown up? I found this quote on a montage for Adam. Typed it up and have it taped to my computer. "In everyone's life at sometime, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit"

Mandy,
I wish I could give you some solid advice on how to put Adam in perspective in your life but I am of no help. I find myself in the same situation and good grief I am old enough to know better. I know in my mind that he is someone I will never be lucky enough to actually know.....I will never be someone in his life......but he has just taken over my thoughts completly. I can't wait to get to my computer in the morning to check out this site to see what he has done and said, and here I am at the end of the day checking it out again. I know that there are probably lots of things about Adam that I don't know that would maybe even shock me. That fact is even intriguing to me. He can look so innocent and childlike is one picture, and a sex god in the next. Both images fascinate me. I have no answer to the feelings you have. I possess them too.......I have to make myself come back to real life after checking on him each day. I am telling myself that he is my drug of choice or that he really has voodoo powers...my family (husband and two kids) are not suffering at all.....things are all normal there, and my job doesn't suffer as I am a professional woman (lawyer) but I know I shouldn't be so taken by anyone. I am very happily married, and love my life.....but I must admit that Adam has taught me that I can be myself and be happy, and since knowing of him and enjoying his immense talent, my life has become fuller because I have let go of my doubts and fears, and am back to the funloving person I was when I was in my twenties.The quote from 7:00 pm about rekindling a fire within says it all to me........that is what he has done.....rekindled the fire within me.....the fire to not be afraid of people that tell us we can't do what we want or be who we want to be...we can live our dreams until every ounce of breath is out of our bodies. Adam is like an angel of hope.....can't explain why he is so powerful......but isn't it wonderful to have someone that is a light of hope and happiness to all of us instead of the constant swarm of people in the world that are only here to make us hate and fear. He is a beacon....a refreshing breeze....a gift to all of us. As long as you can keep the fact that he is an untouchable to you, he can be your inspiration. Look for his caring and sweet traits in men you meet...make sure they have a soft heart and are able to show love wholeheartedly. I am lucky.....my husband is so much like Adam....very loving and caring, and sensual and sexy. Maybe that is why Adam is so appealing to me....I don't know. I wish that Adam realized how much he has impacted so many of us......Adam fans out there......don't think I am crazy....I am fine...but my life has changed since Adam's first week on AI.....it has changed for the better.......I am happier.....I am free from fear.....and I am looking forward to each new day instead of dreading what it may unfold into. I am able to look thru Adam's young eyes and see life anew.......what a gift he has given me......not to mention his wonderful voice, and entertaining ability. He is wonderful and we should just all enjoy him and his talents.Remember Mandy....look for all his good qualities in someone you either know already or are yet to meet.

**at loss for words, here** I have also found myself with Adam. I agree with all the other reasons people have given for finding him so fascinating, but in addition, I love his confidence in himself. That is sexy. He knows who he is, celebrates it but doesn't beat you over the head with it. His demeanor, off stage, is soft caring and sweet. On stage - sex demon! Oh god, what a deliciious contradiction of a man! Love him. I have been getting hardly any sleep since discovering Adam - because I am married, with a son, and after my husband and son go to bed, I finally have some "me" time to obsess over Adam on line, and then I get to bed too late! He's exhausting me, honestly, but I've never been happier! Voodoo, for sure.

Join me - someone started a grass roots Facebook campaign to get Adam to host SNL (worked for Betty White)! Let's get our beautiful boy on SNL, as host and musical host! http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=373186789830&ref=mf

This is great stuff! I'll just say this...Adam makes me *wish* I had d*ck so I could fnck him! Or him me or switch!

You people who are so "Obessed" with Adam need to seek therapy! I love Adam but as a fan not as an obessed over the top crazy stalker. What you are feeling is not normal. Look at what happens to celebritys who have fans like you people here, for one Jonh Lennon got killed by such a one. You carry your over zealous feelings onto the person you are obessed with and then you start thinking they are YOURS and then the irrational thinking begins. You are all scary on here who think they are in love with Adam and he is the being of your existence. Please seek help. Adam is there to admire and love, not be obessed with.