I just watched the video of the interview and saw Adam's entire outfit. It's a crazy combination with the gloves and the high leather boots. And those shorts...haven't we seen then before at one of those summer promo concerts he did recently? Nothing really new in the interview because it was just fun to watch Adam being himself with a little fun and silliness thrown in.
loved that park. Now on my bucket list is LA, London and Japan and I better not run into that mosquito that bit Adam!!! lol
Damn FRECKLESSSSSSSSSSSSS!!:))) Very appealing........Lucky mosquitoes!!!! Lucky girl to have the chance with Adams acapella:)Japan is beautiful...Canadian
Adam look creepy and ugly with blonde hair,I prefer different color.
He looks pale and washed out, like an old man with grey hair, yuck!
@8:39 and 8:41 what great fans you are or maybe the same person.Weather you like Adam's hair or not he is still the same beautiful person. Haven't you ever heard of the saying if you can't say something nice don't say it at all! This interview was fun,he looked adorable with that outfit, just being who he is. I will always love him no matter what color his hair is. Those Japanese really adore Adam,makes me feel so happy!
Arigatou! Whoa! My favourite little black singlet and studded shorts and boots...and the girl got a hug by him in this scrumptious attire. If I were the girl, I would have seized the opportunity to try and look down the back and smack that mosquito. lol! But in retrospect the mosquito pot gave away what could have been more real...like the girl trying to look for the mosquito peeking into Adam's singlet...steamy, lol! Yea I got my wish, to hear Adam sing a cappella...raw. The recap of Adam's journey from AI to that present moment in the green park has been arduous but fruitful and enjoyable for Adam. :)Lam-my
@8.48PM..Yes I do think he looks pale and pasty looking the bleach has also made his hair look very dry, it's not a good look on Adam it makes him look older. At least I'm being honest which is better than choosing to say nothing. Yes he's a good person and yes he has a good sense of humour and yes he is very talented, but no I do not like this colour on Adam at all, think what you like, but being up front is far better than pretending to love everthing someone does just for the sake of it.
@8:57 We all have our opinions but they can be stated in a nice way. I honestly do love Adam no matter what his hair color is or what he is wearing,etc.I love what is inside him so the outside always looks beautiful to me and that is the TRUTH!
It was cool to see the reaction after Adam sang NCOE. They were CLEARLY impressed as was I. Who wouldn't be? Who can sing like that at the drop of a hat? Who can look that good? Well, ok the shorts are not my fav and with the boots, but it's Adam being Adam and I take him any way I can get him always entertaining visually as well as vocally. Must be hot there and I don't just mean because our rock god is there! Darn lucky mosquito!I love how Japanese television took us on the Adam journey and included all the stuff that isn't usually brought up in other television appearances. Heck, I am just happy that they brought up Adam and Queen. You could see how highly they all thought of him in those Queen performances.
@9:18 PM..You sound like the perfect fan, good on you for being such a good person. As far as the TRUTH goes your entitled to see things your way but by no means do I have to see it the same way as you! Who are you to give me a lecture on how I should feel or what I should say!
The Japanese seem to truly love Adam, without any reservations! Why can we be like them and enjoy Adam the same way without any criticisms?
Luke Easton @3ku1Adam Lambert - Trespassing - http://itun.es/i6jt4Cc #iTunes Wow @adamlambert #Trespassing is #34 and #6 overall and in Pop on @itunesmusic JAPLuke Easton @3ku1Adam Lambert - Trespassing - http://itun.es/i6jt9Hw #iTunes And @adamlambert #Trespassing (Single) is #30 in Pop on @itunesmusic JAPLuke Easton @3ku1And @adamlambert #Trespassing is now at #4 in Best Sellers in Pop on @amazon JAP
I behold Adam, one who is beautiful outside whom I know to be a beautiful person inside, no matter the look. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". atm
Classic Rock Magazine wants us to vote for Adam and Queen as the EVENT OF THE YEAR!!!! Well, of course it was!!Vote here:http://awards.classicrockmagazine.com/event-of-the-year/queenadam-lambert
Saw this on twitter 41 min ago:kai357 @kai357Sauli was watching Adam with a drink in hand, fanning himself w/Japanese fan, and smiling happily! He was so cute! (via http://bit.ly/TDGIMH
I think Adam's hair color is fresh, different, fashionable, and it changes color under different lighting which I love. At first I wasn't fan of this change but I got used to it and now I love it. IMO since he said his hair grows so fast with this color the up-keep of it is less time consuming and he doesn't need to touch it up all the time since his own natural hair color is light strawberry blond.Thus far I love all the Japanese interviews and videos. Seems his promo is doing really well as Trespassing is moving up the charts in Japan.
Wow... : (((@Anon 8:39 PMWhat a MEAN thing to say...Here's the deal: It's fine that you "prefer a different color"..Everyone has preferences. But to say Adam looks "creepy and ugly"... I have to STRONGLY disagree with you..A simple change of hair color does NOT make someone look creepy and ugly, when they were beautiful and striking just the day before.. He is a very good looking guy: creepy and ugly is NOT a description of Adam EVER. He is simply a little closer to his original color. He was a very good looking guy then too, with ginger hair...@Anon 8:41 PMOld man with grey hair? Pale and washed out?? He doesn't look old at all (Okay, MY opinion...) ...And there are a significant number of gorgeous men with grey hair...So please cross THAT INSULT off your list...Thanks. (My husband, a blond Viking with some grey mixed in now..will thank you too.) @Anon 8:57 PM"Just being honest"? Again, here's the deal..Adam has to deal with shit all the time on the internet. Every time there is something posted about him, on a non-Adam fan blog..idiots go on there and make comments similar to the ones above..and much worse. He recently said in an interview that those comments DO HURT HIM...So on a blog like this, it would be nice if we, as fans, who love Adam, wouldn't have to read rude things about him...To all of you (or one of you if you are the same person..):Yes, this Blog is based in America: Its a free country, freedom of speech and all..but I really think its NOT always best to always say that first thing that pops into your head..Think of it this way: WOULD YOU SAY THOSE WORDS TO ADAM HIMSELF, TO HIS FACE?? I think not. He has enough negativity thrown his way. The words " I prefer the other shade better" is an "honest opinion" and that's great.. But "Adam looks creepy and ugly..." is just plain rude, and even if you think so, doesn't belong here. You may beg to differ, but that's MY opinion: "Just being honest." Honesty is NOT always the best policy sometimes. In the world of the faceless internet, people get away with saying whatever they want, without any thought to how it might make the target of the words feel if they happen to read them. I can think of more than one fabulous and supportive fan (one I have since met personally and although she misses the people here, could not be here any more..too painful to read negativity toward Adam..) who has left this blog because of words like that...Okay, finished with rant..
MTV Buzzworthy @MTVBuzzworthy@adamlambert HOW could you not be excited for Snooki's baby? Can't you just be happy for her??Adam Lambert@adamlambert@MTVBuzzworthy haha. So excited for her.
Reyna @RainOnMe83Just finished the tv taping! Trespassing yellow hair!! http://instagr.am/p/OVgmmYoG7F/
Adam's tweets which include a link to a touching/"Awesome" video and a GIF of that guy touching his chest!!:Adam Lambert @adamlambertOHAYO “@socialcyanide_: @adamlambert gets felt up on Japanese t.v. XD http://twitpic.com/ajiip7 ” View photo Reply Retweet Favorite5h Jai Rodriguez @jairodriguez@adamlambert on @ellen I think it's a repeat. he kills "Better than I know myself". Dying. #amazingRetweeted by Adam LambertExpand Reply Retweet Favorite13 Aug Adam Lambert @adamlamberthttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqgArAAuv8s&feature=colike … SO AWESOME View video
Adam only sang 4 songs today. Trespassing, Naked Love, NCOE, and Cuckoo:http://ow.ly/i/QPW0
Jai Rodriguez@jairodriguezCo-Executive Producer for @logotv #badsex Emmy award winning host of QUEER EYE, Actor and Activist. Star of ABCs fall sitcom MALIBU COUNTRYLos Angeles, CA · http://www.facebook.com/JaiRosriguezBorneoBert @BorneoBert@jairodriguez Have you seen Adam's platinum do? Hot!! pic.twitter.com/h3Q5BPaYJai Rodriguez @jairodriguez@BorneoBert he can do no wrongJai Rodriguez @jairodriguez@adamlambert the things Adam can do w his voice! I don't know another man who can sing the way he does power/range and tone fav male singerSharon_Miller1962 @Shadylady_1031@jairodriguez yes he'll be on PrettyLittleLiars in Oct. Do you know Adam?@MetalEmpress @adamlambert @MalibuCountry_Jai Rodriguez @jairodriguez@Shadylady_1031 @MetalEmpress @adamlambert @MalibuCountry_ yea. Few years now. Really solid guy
Adam Lambert@adamlambertOHAYO “@socialcyanide_: @adamlambert gets felt up on Japanese t.v. XDhttp://twitpic.com/ajiip7 ”http://twitpic.com/ajiip7
adam your are the best thing to happen in music. You are very versatile and can sing any type of music. I knew from the first time I saw you sing For Your Entertainment that i immediately loved it and was drawn to your looks and thought you are the most beautiful man I have ever seen both inside and out. I had to go on google and catch up to your history on american idol and have been a fan since that song introduction, I just loved the beat of for your entertainment. I knew then you will be an icon. I love you in dark hair the best, The lighter hair makes you look much older and at the same time BEIBER looks like your younger brother in the lighter colour and style,
OT - watched the repeat Ellen Show today - fun seeing Leila, Terrance, Sauli and Neil in the audience again. Never thought I would ever say this but I now prefer this hair color over the black. Since I've always loved black haired guys this really surprises me. ....... @Glitzlady, agree completely with what you said but also feel some of the ugly posts were from trolls not fans. . . . Adamluv
Thanks for the Jai R tweets/info folks!MGF
Hi MGF - how you doing? How is PRS? . . . Adamluv
I think most of the trolls are fans but their mind-sets are like little babies who whine when they don't have what they want. They don't think realistically. Their mind is set on nos. and comparison. They don't live in the NOW.
@AdamluvYou're probably right..but now they know how I feel too! LOL!!!
There is this beautiful Japanese garden in San Francisco that I recommend you all to see it. Here is a link to find out more about it:http://japaneseteagardensf.com/
From Adam's public facebook run by his label:Make sure to go check out the new and improved Adam Lambert Fan Club here - http://bit.ly/OZdswW. Pick up a membership package today and join the Glamily!http://bit.ly/OZdswW
Hot Trespassing Nails Pic by @sonia_life:トレスパネイル♡ Festival Concert Mezamashi Live 2012 hosted by Fuji TV Network in Tokyo, Japan.http://instagr.am/p/OVOAq9pnw7/
Yay! Via @LAMBERTLUST: So it's official plane tickets bought! Going to Arizona fair! Here's the link I'll be streaming show from! October 17: Concert. Phoenix, AZ. Arizona State Fair at 7pm MSThttp://www.ustream.tv/channel/adamlambertlustTickets:http://www.azstatefair.com/
@Adamluv - I am deep DTRH 2nite :), a nice place to be :). Btw, Thanx to whoever mentioned that awesome new-ish AML/Queen Break Free Ripped pants vid!! PRS is fierce, u know that better than me. glitzy's tryin to educate - so admirable :). off to Cape 2moro, better sleep (there's plenty of time to sleep when we die :)). A fond hello to the long time regulars ... AG, HK Fan, Daydreamin, DRG ... All u peeps MGF
11:32Arigatou! I love this picture; blow it up and frame it on the wall...very intriguing, a piece of photographic art! :)Lam-my
@Lam-my I think I am try to do it for Trespassing tour. That pretty cute innovative Trespassing nail color do.
11:54Yea you should and get someone to take a picture of your painted finger-nails with a close-up lens, say a couple of feet above your hand. Then you can frame it and hang it on your wall; will be very eye-catching and a good talking point because when it's blown up it looks like a piece of art...a literally personal piece. :)Lam-my
@MGFHaha! You'd think I'd have learned by now, right? : )) Have great time at the Cape...I remember talking to you about being there when we were just all "Adam Lambert newbies..." here...in 2010 I believe. Haven't had the chance to go back yet, but hoping so. Loved Provincetown....
@glitzylady 10.07PM..I find your being very rude yourself with your comments, you act as if you are a personal friend of Adam's but your not, your just another fan, I think you need to come down off your high horse, your too full of your own importance and a little too obsessed with Adam.
Adam looks gorgeous and he also has such cute knees..
this video proves that spending time in the company of Adam really is like "taking a walk in the park"..
"Glamberts" a little "too obsessed" with Adam........duh.....that's our trademark.....I'm obsessed and loving it.....gone "Cuckoo"
@4:42 AM..I'm a Glambert myself and I adore Adam so I know how you feel but I was referring to a different type of obsession. My comment was for someone else who decided to try and give me a lecture because I dared to have a different opinion to their's and in doing so only proved to show themselve's up for the type of person they really are, extremely patronizing, extremely rude and very narrow minded.
Glitzylady, your comment was extremly well written, extremely truthful and thank-you very much for taking the time to write it.
The japan people are so polite.
11:19 I have been there and it is so beautiful. Makes me want to go back. It's okay to say you're not a fan of the hair - it implies that you are a fan of the man. We've been having these follicle wars forever - part of the Adam discourse (and I include Melivin in that.)The thing is not to take it too seriously. Supposed to be fun.
Just to reiterate: I don't give a **** if someone likes or doesn't like Adam's hair, facial hair, outfit, shorts, shoes, particular version of a song, etc...Minor stuff and fluff, but calling him "creepy and ugly" is fighting words for me..for the reasons I stated above. Read it again if you missed my point: Its not about hair, or whatever...its about saying hurtful things. He gets enough of that elsewhere. I really dislike seeing it here. Adam isn't ugly, and anyone who says he is, will get an argument from me. My opinion counts too, by the way! : ))))Sometimes silence is NOT "Golden"..It can be taken as affirmation. I prefer to speak out...Usually, I just ignore, and move on..this time, had to say something. Its a two way street, by the way...]\@Anon 6:14 AMThanks..
Go figure some of these ridiculous disrectful comments towards Adam.AND these are so called 'fans'?!More like ememies.
Adam's hair looks incredible. So classy and beautiful. Loved this interview. Japan is so full of fun!
@8:41 Prehaps you should be following Bieber.
Love the Jai Rodriguez twitter conversation about Adam! So complimentary and TRUE! Voted in the Classic Rock poll. Tried to vote more than once, but I don't think it works. This would be a GREAT one for him to win. Please vote on it! This short performance is just a warm-up for the BIG shows coming up soon. So happy to see Adam's numbers go up in Japan! Hope the same happens in Australia. DRG (getting really tired of the hair fights)
@glitzlady - Agree with you 100% Thanks for speaking out - you read my mind!nancdruuu2
Glitzy:Give up!...I posted a very poignant plea on an earlier thread; generally falls on deaf ears, or you get thrashed at by some of the "oh so wonderful" visitors here.Personally, I think that all of those that are posting nasty crap about Adam should have to post their picture and let all the world nit-pick the shit outta them, on a daily fucking basis and see how they hold up!!!Another good reason this site should go to the format of having to "sign in" to post.Most of the trash that spew the vitriol enjoy being able to hide behind anonymity, because they're too chicken to own their own shit!!Sorry I missed you in L.A.Have a peaceful day.PRS
your and you're, I get them mixed up constantly too.
Adam Lambert does not have an Ugly or Creepy bone in his body. Adam is a beautiful, talented man,I love the hair color, love it this way and other way! He alway's in my opinion looks great, he is a pop, rock star and looks like one!he not Joe average he a star! And dresses like one! Everything about Adam say,s star! Everyone can have an opinion but when it is cruel!, hateful and hurtful to Adam then that opinion will be met with mine!, if u cannot say an opinion without being mean to one of the nicest people on the planet, then GET the HELL our of here! sue
Glitzylady has her facts wrong, she is assuming that both the earlier posts were sent by the same person, which is totally incorrect. The first post referring to Adam as being creepy and ugly was not me, I happen to think Adam is a beautiful looking man more importantly he has an inner beauty that shines from within so I cannot understand how any one could say he looks creepy or ugly no matter what colour his hair happens to be.The comment I made was in reference to Adam's hair colour I thought it made him look pale in colour, and with the sun shining on it the light was harsher to me it looked like grey hair, I was not implying that Adam himself looked old but I was trying to say that it looked like grey hair that you might see on an older man. My intention was not to be insulting but to merely point out how I felt when I first saw the photo, it was an honest response. I thought Adam's hair looked softer at the tv studio under their lighting when he performed Trespassing, but outside it looked a lot different. I'm a keen Adam supporter no matter what colour he chooses to wear, who knows the blonde may grow on me the more I see of it, but I fully respect Adam's decision to wear his hair however he see's fit, after all it's his hair!It's obvious that some fans are more sensitive than other's so I apologize for not giving more thought to the way I expressed my feelings.However, this by no means excuses the rude and ignorant way you went on your rant Glitzylady, some of your comments have been far from perfect yourself and I suggest you take a good look in the mirror before standing in judgement of others, next time get your facts right before you pounce on people.
I am totally lost here ok 9:32 you actually said the comment at 8:41 but not the comment at 8:39? You said he looks pale and washed out, like an old man with grey hair, yuck!?
wow I think some people are hung up on an age thing here.
As I have pointed out before art, music, looks, appeals are very subjective. What one sees as beautiful may appear "ugly and creepy" to another person. The glambert fan has said she is being honest; why can't we accept that? If someone says Adam is ugly and creepy, lol! with intention to hurt then that's not being honest. But in this case the glambert fan states very clearly she is being "lectured" just because she has a differing opinion. Would you rather she says Adam looks really good in blond hair when she or the other anon thinks the blond hair makes Adam look ugly and creepy. That will be dishonest. I don't think Adam will feel hurt by this blond hair making him look ugly and creepy comment. Adam is definitely more open-minded than that. He would be hurt by things such as the AMA which attacked his artistic expression; but not when someone says blond hair makes him look ugly and creepy. He'll probably laugh and just flick it off like dandruff. lol! He knows it can't be that bad when millions of girls are screaming for him. Also I totally disagree with the statement..."Honesty is NOT always the best policy sometimes." Honesty is always the best policy at All times. Perhaps only when faced with a life and death situation concerning whether to be honest or not, then a rethink may be needed. But in everyday dealings such as making comments on Adam, good or bad, beautiful or ugly, honesty must take topmost priority as far as possible. The Japanese interviewer asked Adam: What do you like most about yourself? With no hesitation whatsoever, Adam answered: "My honesty!" So if this glambert lady or the other, states clearly it's her honest opinion about the "creepy and ugly" remark, we would have to consider that as her opinion and not be "lectured". Now do you understand why Adam is not accepted by his own people...well, they can't accept his honesty. They want Adam to follow and say what most people think is right. Somewhat like what is happening here to the glambert lady. :)Lam-my
Screw It...I'M JUST GOING TO ENJOY THE ADAM RIDE!!!!!!!and if I don't like a post...I wouldn't continue to read it IT'S NOT THAT DEEP!
@10:02 AM..Yes that's right that is what I said,my comment was posted at 8:41 however for some reason some people thought I was also responsible for the comment posted at 8:39 and I can assure you this was not me, it's hard to say what that person actually meant it doesn't sound nice but on the other hand it's only a short statement so I don't see how anyone can be so quick to judge this comment either. I can only take responsibility for my post sent at 8:41 this was my post regarding Adam's hair colour, however, I can assure you it was not a deliberate attempt to put Adam down, if you read the recent post I sent at 9.32 hopefully you will understand what I meant to say. The backlashing I received over my post was in no way warrented and I really think that intimidation and bullying are far more offensive than anything I may have said in haste.
Lam-my why mention anything about a lecture than? That person has a right to their opinion too. Sorry sometimes I think you think you are Mother Teresa.
@10:18...Any one can make a mistake or slip up at times but we all have a right to FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION, that's another one of Adam's quotes, and your quiet right, it shouldn't BE THAT DEEP, but unfortunately it's been made that way because some people just can't seem to help themselves. I also agree that we should be concentrating on Adam and is success in Japan rather than this garbage.
10:27The word "lecture" is not mine; scroll up to 5:13; I merely quoted it. Whoa, nowhere am I even a teeny-weeny bit like St Mother Teresa...I love her, yes. :)Lam-my
Adam isn't excepted by his own people??
People have a right to have an opinion but if their going to be attacked on a personal level over it then that's another thing, and the comments made have had nothing to do with Lam-my, I send my posts anonymously rather than using using my name, just the same as many other fans choose to do, that's my choice. No I'm not Mother Teresa, I've never laid claims to being a saint, but I do believe in a fair go and standing up for I believe to be right.
@10.48AM.. This is very sad, and I'm beginning to understand how he must feel at times, but I really admire his courage. Japan love Adam and I'm sure he'll be well received in Australia.
10:48Maybe I should say accepted by half of his country's people; is that fair enough? Or less than that? Look at all the beautiful FYE songs, Fever, and my favourite, FYE song left by the wayside, didn't even reach Top 5. The most glaring of all and the whole world knows...He was robbed at A1/S8 in broad daylight! Lam-my
@11:02 AM..I'm sure there are many in your country that do love and respect Adam, but sadly not all of them and I agree with you he did deserve to win AI/S8, he was clearly the true winner in that competition. I think it's fortunate that he has such a good family to lend support and close friends he can trust, and it's great to see how well he and Sauli are getting on, so hopefully these things keep him strong.
JAK here.......I had planned on staying out of this mess, but of course I have given in to temptation. May I say a word in defense of old men with gray hair...I'm married to one and he's not Yuck! at all. He's quite distinguished looking, Oxford professor type, still gets the 'once over' from waitresses and the lady in the bookshop. (actually I'm suspicious of her....late 50ish tan tennis playing type). He's 20 yrs her senior but I think she's a reverse cougar!Be kind and compassionate to your elders....you'll get there soon! :))
reverse cougar JAK you crack me up.
@JAK 12:50 PM..I made the comments about grey hair, however it might interest you to know that I myself have grey hair and so does my husband, I'm 61 years old and proud of it. My statement has been misunderstood, I was not implying that Adam looked old but how I preferred his darker hair and that grey to my mind is what you might expect to see on older people, I also think you happen to be a little more intelligent than to believe that I was insulting your husband because I certainly wasn't. Now you don't have to except what I've put to you perhaps you would prefer to keep picking away at me or try sending me on some sort of guilt trip but I can tell you now I refuse to buy into it, as I already stated I'm entitled to have an opinion and if you don't like it then that's your problem not mine.
@ 1:18 P.M.....JAK hereMost of our fellow Glamberts know I have a warped sense of humor and was attempting to be funny. Sorry if you have taken offense.
lordy be ,some people need to relax.
@1:18 PM..JAKThat's OK JAK, no offense taken, Thanks for getting back to me.
Wow. I'm so staying out of this ridiculous bantering back & forth and backbiting.
Shigles, Good for you, it's time to move on!
My only advise as I always say is IGNORE trollish comments whether they're really trolls or not.If they are trolls, why bother.if they are fans but sound like trolls, well, why bother again.You cannot win, no matter because they will always insist they have the RIGHT for they will not see how wrong they are or how wrong they worded it.People should NOT argue with someone who is NOT their equal especially in anonymity.You will NEVER win because PRIDE is their driving force so will NEVER admit any wrong or mistakes being accused of them.PRIDE is always RIGHT and will NEVER accept defeat and will NEVER accept they are WRONG.NEVAH!
IT'S SO EASY TO LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY - AND IT FEELS SO GOOOOD!!! AND THIS IS MY HONEST OPINION!AND THAT ACAPELLA SINGING...OH MY, OH MY!!!
wow, kind of gave up on this thread,But @glitzylady and PRS, so true as always, thanks goodness for at least some voices of reason on here still.and hi @MGF, good to see you back. have a good holiday.
4:26I had said openly here and elsewhere I would love to hear Adam sing a cappella and wished at that point, NCOE, he would continue singing...whoa! He should do an a cappella on his next tour; that would be heavenly...:)Lam-my
Well, after spending the day at work, and finally getting a chance to sit down at the computer: Oh my....First of all, let me take this opportunity to thank @Anon 8:41 PM (yesterday..) for clarifying what was meant by the "He looks pale and washed out, like an old man with grey hair, yuck" comment. If you carefully read what I said, I didn't necessarily assume you were the same person..but with no "tag", and just an "Anon" tag, it was hard to tell. Another VERY good example of why we REALLY need tags..to avoid confusion and avoid getting identified as someone else..I much prefer "talking" to someone that has a "name". Just like I "own" my "name" and take the good with the bad.. At least no one mixes me up with someone else. Again thanks for your clarification. @Anon 1:47 AMOuch.@Anon 5:37 AMOuch again...And if by chance you're referring to me, I'm about as far from "narrow minded" a you can get...If you actually knew me, you'd know that. I also have no importance whatsoever, and I know that: but I do have opinions, just like you do. Yes, I am a little "obsessed" with Adam..just like most here.. I'm also a little obsessed with him being treated fairly out there in the world of music.., and in the world at large, and for him to NOT have to see things that say he's "creepy and ugly". You certainly have the right to say it if you wish to be brutally honest, but friends don't always feel the need to be brutal..I would never tell someone I know and love that they look like that. ... Some say he would laugh it off..maybe on the surface but those things add up...and weigh down the soul after awhile..As an adolescent, Adam had self esteem and self-image issues. Why would we as fans wish to dump those little doubts about himself on him? Ever. Your decision, but I won't do it.
Lam-my I would faint dead away if I went to an Adam cocert and he did that!! Don't stop the wishing please!! lol
@Anon 9:32 AMIf you look back at my comment at 10:07 PM last night.. I didn't assume it was all one person but because of similar "styles" and NO TAGS it was hard to tell exactly who said what. This is exactly what I said: "To all of you (or one of you if you are the same person..)..." And thanks for reminding me that I was "rude and ignorant". I'll keep that in mind from now on. As to which comments you referred to of mine as being "far from perfect", I've never claimed to be perfect, only an imperfect Adam Lambert fan, and one who wishes him only the best.
@Lam-MyYou are always an eloquent, playful and poetic : ) poster here, but in this case I must disagree with something you said in relation to this whole bruhaha. And perhaps explain myself a little more so that there are no misunderstandings. Communication is everything. My comment re "Honesty is not always the best policy" is in reference ONLY to someone making a rude and harshly judgmental comment about someone else's (in this case, Adam's) appearance. I believe COMPLETELY in honesty in one's life, in one's dealings with others. That is a given. Period. But, in commenting on someone's appearance, a little "variation", a little "softening" in the honesty department is sometimes allowed, at least in my world...You discussed the fact that Adam is to be admired for his honesty, and you are SO right. I admire him as an honest and principled man who follows his own path in life. However, I suspect that even HE would temper his honesty with kindness when commenting on someone's appearance. I may be wrong here, but he probably isn't going to want to hurt someone's feelings all for the sake of "honesty", especially in a public place..or blog....He is very tactful and gracious that way. I also suspect he would find something positive to say. Your reference to everyone having a different opinion re Art is certainly true.."Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.." but Adam is not a piece of art (even tho he sometimes seems like it: hair, fashion sense...his esthetic sensibilities, his appreciation for various art forms..)..He's a human being after all..If someone thinks he looks "creepy and ugly.." I suppose that's everyone's right to say so. But I also find it inconsiderate and lacking in respect for Adam's artistic vision re his hair.... That said, we know he'll change it up yet again, when the mood strikes. As he said "Change is Good"..in HIS eyes and imagination anyway..Apparently not everyone agrees with him. Fair enough, but honesty, tempered with a little kindness, is preferable in my mind, anyway. I'll be keeping that in mind for myself in the future. I hope others will consider that as well.Feel free to disagree...: ))))
glitzyladyFirst thank you for the compliments and yes I absolutely agree that communication is vital to any successful form of relation, even as virtual as all here who really do not know one another in depth; even if you have met a few of them; so more communication might help diffuse misunderstandings; point well-taken and accepted. Regarding Adam not being a piece of art literal sense...I think he is one of God's finest pieces of sculpture, lol! Okay, but I did include apart from art, looks and appeals, which are really subjective opinions. Just a few simple examples...look at a bulldog, I love that terrible droopy look which some would say ugly. How about snake, tarantula, scorpion (from the beauty point of view, not the poison). Thanks for the reply. :)Lam-my
I've said it before and now I'll say it again. I have never looked at another human being as much as I gaze upon this young man we love- Adam, and no matter what he does to change up his externals,he possesses a beauty that mesmerizes me. All I see is his gorgeous self and the kindness that is reflected in his loving eyes. And I'm glad I use my given name so I won't be confused with anyone else when I choose to comment on this interesting site......
glitzylady Do you ever get tired of being called The Voice of Reason?
@lorraine 10:07PM - please allow me to quote your words, cause they describe my sentiments exactly, too! Thank you!”I have never looked at another human being as much as I gaze upon this young man…. no matter what he does to change up his externals, he possesses a beauty that mesmerizes me…GGD Gal
@ GGD Gal You're welcome....
To the 61-year-old lady who said:"He looks pale and washed out, like an old man with grey hair, yuck"I understand better your comment about "grey hair" now and I sympathize with your growing old and grey-hairaied and feeling "yuck!" Believe me, no one around would be polite enough and will never say that to you. So relax!
Thank you glitzylady for responding to all these nasty comments about Adam's hair! This is not honesty, just plain rudeness! Who on earth would say something like this to anyone, let alone to someone they love!
7:34Exactly! Someone close and who loves the person and if he/she thinks that it is ugly, they'll say it to protect not to hurt. Yes this is honesty alright. I'm not referring to the case being discussed which may be the case though. On the other hand, one might not say it to their superior/boss even if they look yuck. lol! :)Lam-my
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