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Adam Lambert's Live Instagram Chat: Adam & Javi Costa Polo Have Amicably Split Up (Includes Javi's Announcement Too)

Filed Under () by glitzylady on Friday, November 15, 2019

Posted at : Friday, November 15, 2019

Adam Lambert's Live Instagram Chat: Adam & Javi Costa Polo Have Amicably Split Up (Includes Javi's Announcement Too)

Sadly, Adam & Javi announced that they are no longer dating, are no longer a couple but both still love each other very much, and remain friends.. 

Adam's Instagram Story Live Chat below (uploaded to You Tube by Gelly414). And below that, Javi's additional explanation of what happened and why (also uploaded to You Tube by Gelly414).. 

We wish both of these men the best in their own individual futures. And may they both someday find their own loving soul mates. 

*Adam spoke of other things as well so be sure to listen to his whole IG Live Chat..







Posted by @glitzylady for ADAM LAMBERT 24/7 NEWS



25 comments:

Sunflower said...

I sleep every night with a YouTube video of a oscillating fan because I can't sleep in a quiet room, having said this I awoke this morning with Adam talking on YouTube, so I quickly picked up my tablet and saw he was on live IG last night and I missed it again! I was home too but I had fallen asleep earlier. Well I saw the 2 videos this morning and it made me sad. I know there's people out there who couldn't care less about Javi but I did! I'v grown fond of him and will continue to follow him! Adam says they still could of been together but that visa situation was there. It is fair that Javi being back home he has found a job he loves and that Adam and him are friends and still communicate with each other. On the other hand Adam will be extremely busy from now till next year! When or where can he fit in a relationship? I wish them both luck. There's no shortages of men who want to be with Adam! Life goes on! Sigh :(

Sunflower said...

The fan video I listened to over night obviously finished and went to the next video which was Adams live IG. That's how I woke up with Adams voice.

Angeladam said...

Sunflower agree with most of what you say,but tbh, if they 'loved 'each other that much, the visa etc, wouldn't be a problem, they'd work. It out like lot's of other couples, e.g. Adam Rippon and his bf, they work it by spending time both in LA and Helsinki, this was (IMO) never going to be a long term partnership, they both knew it was until Javi's visa ran out !

The Dark Side said...

I believe Adam was sincere in his feelings or he would not have been so public.there was a big age difference to overcome plus Javi moving forward with his own career life. I hope they both can move on from this.

Angeladam said...

Agree Darkside ,the age difference was always going to be an issue sadly, , even though they BOTH knew Javi had not finished his education, I truly believe Javi being so clever, used Adam to gain contacts etc, so feel sorry for Adam, having said that, Adam should f have known Javi might have used him to advance his career, having said that, neither seem to be 'utterly heartbroken' so I have my own opinions on their ' heartbreaking decision to break up ' if it had been a total lovestory, they would have worked things out, ( not a huge issue) I MO it was ca staged thing from the word "go" sorry if this offends anyone but really ???

annemarie said...

Adam is a romantic, and he was really yearning for a relationship. He had been single for about 5 years, and kept seeing Sauli fairly regularly, until Sauli found someone, then all of a sudden Adam finds his love on instagram. I truly believe Adam thought he had found the perfect person, but alas he found out that Javi couldn't stay here. They both had known for some time that Javi had to return to Spain. Which is why, IMO why they got over the separation
quickly, and both had a career to attend to, and both got used to the idea that it would not be a long term relationship. I am quite sure they will remain friends, Adam is known to have lasting friends, except for one person. I expect Javi is very happy to be home again, with his friends and family. Adam will be touring all over the world touring with Queen, so he won't have much time to be dating an American for some time. Javi had a relationship with a girl, while he was in Colorado, so I assume he is bi. He calls several people his one and only, besides Adam, his mother, a long time girl he has known all his life, so that is just a term he uses for close friends. Well it has been interesting this last year, and I am looking forward to more interesting things in Adams life to come.

Sue Smith said...

Adam seems just fine. Life goes on and he has so much to offer to any relationship. None of us really know Javi and I do not pretend to make any particular assuption about what his motives were.
It will take a very ,very special person to keep Adam for the long haul.
Yes he has to travel alot so it would be great for him if he in the future could have love for someone who will fit into that life style of travel for work whatever works. Many people with big age differences have made it work just fine. Adam has a beautiful young spirit. I dont believe for one minute Adam would ever fake being in love with anyone that's not Adam. Why would he ever do that for what reason. I dont know Javi enough to say about him. Adam is the most sincere person and honest person period.
As Adam said he is going to be really busy very soon even busier than he has been. Like someone said on here there is no shortage of people who want to be with Adam. Eventually the Real mr. Right will happen in the mean time he will happily enjoy his life.
He loves to perform and he will be meeting lots of new people among the regulars no time for sadness only time for him to live his life to the very fullest.

LAMBERT Outlaw said...

As I have said before .. ADAM is a grown man & his life is his to live!! It's nice that he loves his fans enough to want to share it with us but I don't feel he has any obligation to do so!! As long as this "split" doesn't affect his career or well being it's up to him how he will react to it!! It seems to me from the way he looked in his IG that he is resigned to the fact that not all relationships turn out the way they feel at the beginning!! I could go on surmising about this but I think I've said enough about it!! I hope both ADAM & Javi are happy with their decision!! It is after all .. their decision!! JMHO

tess4ADAM(LAMBERT Outlaw)

Mi Re La said...

If there was a great love between Adam and Javi they would have found solutions to stay together. For Adam his career is the most important thing in his life because he worked hard to build it. Whoever wants to stay with Adam must sacrifice for his career.
I think Javi was curious to see how a star lives. At this age he is looking for his own path and tries in several places.This reason with visa was just good for ending a relationship that I think doesn't work for many reasons anyway.
Adam seemed really happy that he is alone again and that he can try something else or rather he can try someone else's

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Allysa Mentor said...

I mean what do I know. I feel sad, breakups really suck. I thought Javi was super supportive of Adam’s career, it was nice to see him at all his concerts, dancing and filming. However everyone does have to have their own purpose in life, otherwise it can be smothering. I only wish them both the best. I wonder if they’ll try to see each other when Adam is touring in Europe.

ElEvans said...

Adam 'would sink my house down underwater' broke up with Javi because visa issues? I don't buy that. Obviously somebody didn't want to continue this relationship. Adam was really sad when he said that he's single now. I knew from the beginning that Javi will break his heart....

annemarie said...

EIEvans, the visa problem is absolutely a huge problem these days. Javi would still have had to go back to Spain, and it might take a few years to get another visa again. He would have to have a close relative in the US to sponsor him, which he does not have, or a contract with a company for work, which is next to impossible to get. I am quite sure they looked into all possibilities. Adam knows that with his work for this next year, they would hardly see each other anyway. Javi wants to go back to school, continue with his modelling and already has a job. They had a few months to get used to the idea of the separation. From what I understood Adam to say, that it was the best way to go. Neither of them seemed too upset about it. I think Adam will think twice before he gets into a relationship again with someone who is not a citizen of the US. This is the second time now, so I hope he has learned from this. Adam seems quite happy with things right now, I think he is more upset that he cannot have Pharoah home. Javi is more likely to move on to a new relationship than Adam. As Adam says they will remain friends.

Unknown said...

As an immigrant myself ,it looks hard but they are ways around the Visa issue,he could have signed up for graduate studies, marriage is another way and several other options,if they wanted to fight for this relationship it would have worked,there was no shortage of money.Marriage to a citizen is one year for green card,I know by experience,grad studies could gave been accomplished in that year,is goo lawyer will guide you,.Javi is young and his parents invested in his education and probably insisted he build a career and his life b4 setlling down .I know that is what I would have told my 21 yr old son,rockstar or not.

Allysa Mentor said...

Visa issues these days are a whole different ballgame than they were 3 years. I’ve been trying to get a new SS card with no luck, and I just went through hell getting a RealID driver’s license, only because I immigrated here legally when I was a baby. All my papers are legal and in order, and only because I have a military ID card ( my husband was military) have I been successful. I would think they both could have done more, but just didn’t because......who knows. Adam is super busy and I don’t think Javi just wanted to be his sidekick with no profession of his own, house sitting and watching the pup. Also most of Adam’s Friends have jobs in the arts and he needs that mental stimulation in a partner. Wondering if they’ll meet up when Adam is in Europe. Sad anyway you see, I believe.

annemarie said...

He might become a friend with benefits, LOL, just like Sauli was, until he found a boyfriend.
I never thought it would last, I think it was very flattering for Javi, to have a star take any notice of him. Now his name is all over the world, through Adam, and has loads of IG followers. You never really know someone until you live with them, then if the glow wears off
it's not easy. I think the visa was a blessing in disguise. Adam needs a lot of his own time now, as he said, he is working on outfits for all the tours coming up. I truly believe he is quite happy now, except not having Pharaoh at home.

Sue Smith said...

Adam does seem ok now even happy. We only know what Adam said and I have never known him to be anything but honest he always has been. However he sure doesn't need to give all the pacifics we are quite lucky he said what he did. He knows how things can be blown way out in left field of the truth. He said something to keep that from getting out of control from fans and others.
Closer to you is a beautiful song about love that could be the most wonderful movie song among much more. I absolutely love that song. However it just did not seem to apply here. I do think there is love between them. However it did not turn out to be the earth shattering kind for Adam. I'm not going to say mean things about Javi. I do think he had and still has love for Adam and still cares for him I think that of both men. Adam does still care for Javi.
I think it started out with thunder but
Cooled down with all the demands on Adam right now and Javi with the Visa issue. Who among us really knows.
I do agree the Visa issue has gotten much harder than when he was with Sauli. Sauli and Adam have only been friends for a very long time. Unfortunately absences usually does not make the heart go fonder that is kind of water over the relationship bridge and why keep comparing every thing to that past relationship.
I do think Adam was more upset about all this than he let on however I do think he is over it now.
Things happen for a reason and it seems to me because of the Visa thing it may all work out for the best for both men.
Do not know about others but I'm going to let both live their life. What does it matter who gets a relationship again first it not a competition. Any right thinking person will not get in a relationship just to prove something.
Adam is going to be very, very busy soon and crazy busy next year. It is really not alot of time for a meaningful relationship. Right now he just trying to find time to visit his dog. Adam thought more of his little dog than to pull him from sitter to sitter and dog watching places while he is promoting the record ect. It hurts on ocassion to do the right thing for others and even a very loved doggie.






glitzylady said...

Adam & Javi worked out their own agreement and that's all we need to know.. May they both be happy, healthy, and at peace with their decisions..It cannot have been easy on either of their parts. My best wishes for both of them as they continue their own life journeys of career and discovery. Who knows what life will bring to them, apart or together. I just appreciate that they shared with us, what was happening and a bit about why they agreed that parting as a couple was in both of their best interests at this time. Any fan speculation is just that: speculation. They each know the other's heart.We do not. And they very clearly respect and love each other as friends and former lovers. Let's do the same...

Sue Smith said...

That is very last I'm saying about the matter GL. Adam did say he had some more than usual anxiety. I know how that can effect you. Hopefully he got something to help that. He seems healthy happy and ok now.
I think the best and most loving thing we can do for Adam is just leave it alone from now on. Same to Javi.




annemarie said...

Adam came across as content and happy talking about the fact that he is single again. Did not sound upset or sad at all. Just continued with answering more questions from his fans. I am sure he has had tons of support from his friends, and probably advice.

Sue Smith said...

Adam was asked what had been wrong and he said he had anxiety. Adam said he always has it but this was worse.
That was on the question and answer thing. However he seems fine now. When he canceled the shows originally that he is now making up he doubtfully was 100 per cent.
However he seems fine now.

annemarie said...

That virus going around is pretty awful. I believe he was sick as he said, and he was probably very tired. He had just done a series of promos and was most likely worn out and to catch a bug must have been awful.There would be no way he could have performed. The anxiety might have come from having to cancel shows, right when he is up to his ears in promoting his album.
It's like a come back since it has been 4 years since his last album, then having to cancel at such a crucial time. I am so glad he is back and healthy now. Someone said he would only be singing on Cordons show, I was really hoping he would have a couch chat too, he has been so funny on the last two times he was on.

Sue Smith said...

I think he was exsausted,not feeling well as well. We all live at least I do live with a certain amount of anxiety.
He's got an awful lot on his plate right now.
He is a human being he gets sick, he gets tired and he has anxiety. We all do.
I'm just very glad he feeling better and looking well and seems in good spirits and more rested. It is some what a come back with his music. However he done over 200 concerts with Queen in the last few years. So that certainly kept his name and singing brilliance out there.
These songs and 2 sides of the album didn't write themselves he has worked hard on them the last few years.
I think we are all happy he looking and feeling alot better.
I cant wait to hear him sing tomorrow on James C show. Every time he has been on JC show he done some extra skits, singing with JC. Dont know if he will this time. But he will be singing one of his songs. Probably SP.

Unknown said...

Good, now he can find guys more close enough to his own age